The Weddings

The weather in the UK is blue skies and sunshine. Did we need to fly all the way back for sunshine, of course not we are here for the wedding of Anne’s nephew Christopher and his betrothed Amoge, or Ams. We have travelled back a couple of days early to ensure that any travel delays can be mitigated. Nothing worse than finding your low cost flight is cancelled and you have to make the rebooking yourself during the summer. We had decided to be in Sicily for the return to the UK as in both Algeria and Tunisia the fact that you have a motorcycle entering the country is recorded in your passport and stamped out on departure with motorcycle, plus they will not fit in the overhead lockers on the plane.

The locations, yes plural, for the wedding are in two counties, Northamptonshire and Bedfordshire. Why two you may ask? The lovely couple bring together two cultural backgrounds, Nigerian and British, hence the two ceremonies. one at Hinwick house on Saturday 14th and the other at Northampton Cathedral in Sunday 15th.

We travel up on the Friday taking Anne’s mother and get our first view of Hinwick house. What a stunning location for the Saturday wedding and Sunday reception. A casual dinner allows both families to catch up.

Pre-wedding casual dinner
Mum and niece Camilla at the pre-wedding dinner

Saturday afternoon sees both Anne and I in traditional Nigerian dress for the ceremony as are many other family members from both sides. We were not expecting to be that included. Thank you Chris and Am. I will leave you to guess the colour theme.

Getting Anne’s gele (head tie) created
The gele (head tie) is ready (and feeling very tight!)
The stunning bride is ready! Ams’s first outfit to greet the in-laws and guests at the Nke nwanyi ga aputa Kele ndi o’bia
Anne’s nieces and sister – Bex, Ams, Camilla and Diane
Anne and her sister Diane
The stunning bridesmaids
And again inside Hinwick House
Anthony in his Nigerian outfit
Anne’s Nigerian dress and gele

Music dancing and a great MC lead the couple and assembled guests through and amazing ceremony at the core of which, in my view, was not only about bringing the couples together but also the respective families.

Nbata ndi umunna na ndi ogo – arrival of the two families bridesmaids
Nbata ndi umunna na ndi ogo – arrival of the two families groomsmen
Nputa nke abụ – Ams’s second entrance (and second dress)
The couple about to be kneel in front of the Chief who is going to marry them
Igba Nkwu Nwanyi – traditional Nigerian marriage ceremonial
Nigerian wedding key elements
The only photo of the two of us

A midday wedding service at Northampton Cathedral allowed those who had partied late into the night a little recovery time. A beautiful ceremony conducted by Christopher’s older brother Matthew. The couple asked that we don’t take photos during the service so we could be fully present during the service.

Congratulations Mr and Mrs Jarvis!
Brother Matthew
The newlyweds
The newlyweds walking through the military guard of honour
Brother Matthew and groom’s dad Jeremy

Anne’s navigation across country saw us arrive back at Hinwick house just behind the bridal car. Anne jumped out and secured some special photos.

The newlyweds have just arrived
First glass of champagne as Mr and Mrs Jarvis
Ams and Chris with Anne’s mum
What a fabulous setting at Hinwick House

The reception dinner and following party ran late into the night, but we, with Anne’s mother, had headed back to Kent a little earlier.

A wonderful weekend which we could not have missed. Congratulations again to Christopher and Ams and thanks for the invite to a unique event.

The plane is now descending into Catania airport and tomorrow Streak and Storm will resume their journey in Sicily.

– Anthony

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